4 Keys to Rekindle the Magic in Your Relationship

4 Keys to Rekindle the Magic in Your Relationship

Do you remember the spark you experienced in your dating days? Are you frustrated that your relationship has lost its charm? Ever wondered what happened to those feelings when everything just seemed like perfect? Do you feel stuck and bored to the point that you stopped caring anymore?

Well, if you answered ‘yes’ to any of the above questions then it’s time to rejuvenate your relation with your spouse to bring back all the spark you had. Do you remember the excitement you felt when were with the special someone? You must be behaving polite, caring and a little bit extra attentive to the needs of your partner. You must have made sincere efforts to bring out the best in you so that you can occupy a special place in your spouse heart. Isn’t it?

As the relationship progressed do you know what has been left behind?

Your efforts.

Ask yourself, do you put the same efforts now as compared to your dating days?

No, isn’t it?

Well, it’s the human nature; people take things for granted as the time passes. There may be other reasons too such as added pressure, responsibilities, career, kids and many more things that diminish the love in the couple. But the good news is you can still recreate that magic or spark in your relationship by just putting some extra efforts. The essential keys to rekindle the spark are:

Break the Code of Silence: Before you start mending things it’s really important to know what the other person feels, his/her desires fears etc. If you don’t break the ice nothing will change. You both need to talk to sort the matter. Create a peaceful ambiance where you can comfortably discuss your feelings.

Learn to Listen Rather Than to Speak: Sex is a sensitive topic to be discussed so you should talk about it in a more polite manner. Be responsive to the needs of your partner rather than interrupting with ‘but’. This step of yours makes them believe that you are listening to understand and not just to argue/speak to prove your certain point. Avoid becoming defensive and try to find the root of the problem and make joint efforts to reach a conclusion.

4 Keys to Rekindle the Magic in Your Relationship

Express Every day: Either you love or not, there is no in between. Love can be best expressed by your actions and as you know “Actions speaks louder than words”. You can do plenty of little things every day that contributes to intimate feelings and makes your connection really strong.

Most of the couples say “I love you” to each other, just out of a habit; they don’t really mean it most of the time. So, you need to change this negativity into positivity where each single word you say comes out straight from your heart. Be playful, respectful with each other. Show that you still care and support them. As far as intimacy is concerned, you can rekindle it with just doing small things like hugs, kisses, touch, flirt or being playful or naughty.

At first, take small steps towards building the solid foundation of your bond. Appreciate your partner, give him/her compliments, and ignore the drawbacks while praising the good things. Even small efforts from your side can bring a positive change in your bond.

Commitment: This key is important to let the partner know that he/she is secure with you. You will stick to his/her side and never leave her. Sometimes marriages go through an infidelity phase; it becomes difficult for the partner to recreate the trust & love. To recover from such difficult phase requires a great deal of commitment to bring change in the faulty spouse followed by the combined support. The joint effort is necessary to rebuild trust with a promise of no such act again.

Rekindling the love and spark in your relation, entirely depends on how willingly you both want and make efforts in the same direction.

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